Friday, 25 May 2007

Oh Glory what have I done


Hi


I lost all my posts and replies.... still have them in email but it's not the same... what have I done and how do I get them back? *HELP SHE SCREAMS* eyeing out the not so blue pool that's almost iced over....

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - The trials and tribulations of trying to get child support from dead beats and the ridiculous criminal justice systems that do NOT o

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Donnette's Spot - The trials and tribulations of trying to get child support from dead beats and the ridiculous criminal justice systems that do NOT o

SINGLE PARENTING IN SOUTH AFRICA - SINGLE PARENTS

Donnette's Spot - The trials and tribulations of trying to get child support from dead beats and the ridiculous criminal justice systems that do NOT o

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Donnette's Spot - My Passions, OCD, and What I detest!: Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Thursday, 24 May 2007

Why is this heading coming up in something that does not resemble English?

Right, hello world (at this stage it's only me - good place to start venting)... 3rd world bitterly cold here today, and no sign of it letting up... Not looking v.v.v.pretty with many layers of woolies on but ummm erm there's no one around to see that except the kids who look the same...I would if at all humanly possible have my rather luscious SINGLE attorney keeping me company and discussing our issues tonight, however since he is about the same age as my son I think he rather decided that he didn't hear my passing remarks on him beuing quite delightful....(silent I might add only to the receptionists who I have known for ever - been their client for 20 years so they are used to me being slightly off-balance)

I have to rest my case on something - Justice in this country. Today I spent an inordinate amount of time getting on my attorney's nerves (bless him - he really is gorgeous and has taken a lot of flack from me over this) whilst we have tried for the last year to get child support from Mr Deadbeat who himself is an attorney....

Finally we got our papers in order without assistance from Dept of Justice and I personally had the documents signed and issued by the Chief Registrar of the Supreme Court today - courier service waiting to deliver urgent to city on other side of RSA - warrant of arrest and detention for deadbeat dads who don't pay maintenance... Courier service waiting to deliver them to appropriate High COurt sheriff to serve and arrest the deadbeat, only to discover at 2.30 pm that it had been authorised under the wrong Act... initially informed us that the Act had been repealed, later turned out that they were incorrect, Act still in existnence by which time Warrant of Arrest and Detention had been changed into Warrant of Execution....

Now the moral of this story to all single parents out there who are battling and doing their best for their children who have deadbeats hanging around too busy with their Mercs, needing to change and upgrdae annually, new lady friends, and townhouses and property investments (let's add in the horses on the farm here as well) is that you CANNOT WIN SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!!! Unless you have a good attorney, R20000 for security and someone willing to take on a a medically diagnosed psychopath you need to go the maintenance court route which can take up to 2 to 3 years in which case you would be living in cardboard boxes or at the Salvation Army...

I sit with a HIGH COURT ORDER... I have already had a writ of execution 4 years ago for non-payment of child support.... I settled on something like R28000 less than claimed and still agreed to pay my own costs after Mr Deadbeat begged & pleaded.... Another moral here is that my children, although they do not know their father as a "father" they know his name as "dad" on the few occasions I had him as a guest in my home to meet the girls (the one he only met for the first time when she was 2 - she is now 7) is that I never allowed the girls to see us arguing bickering fighting or anything of that nature. Which is why I allowed him as a guest in my home - I of course do not have another relationship so it was never a problem. He was in and out of relationships and so when he did visit spent more time SMSing the latest and having private calls outside than spending time with the kids.... MORAL=never let them see you fight - they will grow up and find out the truth for themselves...

WIll have to finish this post later... Aiden is in need of my cell phone because he cannot sleep until he has blocked it and I have to search with frozen fingers for the PUK... No spelling check done tonight again due to above reasons.... Will cotinue next instalment on deadbeats in a short while.... But I do have soe good advice and am willing to share it - and yes, it is legal....

Bye for now, speak soon - I still need to find a place to upload photos.... Will look when cell phone is out of danger and fingers are unfrozen...

D
xx

Wednesday, 23 May 2007

ही तेरे एवेर्योने - थिस is इन हिंदी - ठाट's नॉट राईट

ई डॉन'त क्नोव वहत ई ऍम व्रितिंग अबाउट नोव सो ई विल हवे तो त्रय ऎंड चंगे इत बैक तो इंग्लिल्श... लोल.... ओह वेल्ल पॉवर उप इंडिया - वी कैन सहारे ओर थौघ्ट्स हियर...


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